Tag: Encouragement

  • The Gift of Grace

    Dee opening her gifts
    Dee opening her gifts

    Last Sunday was my birthday. On the preceding Friday night, the family gathered to have my birthday party. We had pizza and cake, the usual birthday fare. Then they let me open my gifts. My 9 – almost 10-year old grandson Christopher proudly handed me a gift bag which contained his gift to me. I reached in a pulled out a book. I thanked him with a hug and started to put the bag aside to open the next gift. “Wait, there’s more, Mom,” my son told me. Surely enough, there were two more parts in the gift bag – two Christmas ornaments that Christopher had picked out for me by himself. I’d almost set aside the most cherished part of my gift.

    Growing up in a Baptist church, I thought I had learned all there was about grace. After all it was preached regularly.

    “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God” Ephesians 2:8

    “Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:” Romans 3:24

    We receive our salvation through God’s grace. A favorite line used in teaching grace is “God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense”. This is true but it doesn’t end there. Too often evangelicals tend to overlook the rest of the gifts God has for us in our “gift bag” called grace. But there is more. So very much more.

    That being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.” Titus 3:7

    “Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.” Hebrews 4:16

    “But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.1 Peter 5:10

    These are just a few of the promises that are ours as part of our gift of grace. There is one in particular that I’m clinging to these days. One has become my prayer almost hourly.

    “And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. 2 Corinthians 12:9

    Paul was talking about the thorn in the flesh he dealt with in his life. I too am learning to how to deal with a thorn in the flesh. It’s not a physical thorn (and Paul’s may not have been either) but it is a difficult situation. I’m having a hard time adjusting to my new job. It’s been a rough adjustment the past few months. I left a job that I’d enjoyed most of the time, and where I had considerable responsibilities and some authority. Then I was home, job hunting, and spending the better part of my days working on my writing pursuits. Now I have a job that I’m very thankful for, but it is very different from anything I’ve ever done before. I struggle every day. Not to mention the fact that I have almost no time for my writing.

    Last week I was asking the Lord if I’d gotten it wrong and had taken a job too quickly or taken the wrong job. But the answer was clear. “My grace is sufficient”. God gives us grace to handle the hard things we face every day. He gives us grace to do what we don’t feel equipped to handle.

    I’m also having to learn humility and am beginning to understand the connection between humility and grace. The greater part of my struggle with my new job is not the level of difficulty in learning a new job, but with the level of authority I have. Or I should say don’t have. I am learning how to be humble and take direction instead of giving direction. It’s a tough lesson but one God makes clear I am to learn.

    “But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.” James 4:6

    When I try to do it all in my own ability, I struggle and become frustrated. But when I submit to God, and allow his grace to flow through me, I can do all things.

    “Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” Proverbs 3:5 and “I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me,” Philippians 4:13

    Amen.

    Peace and Blessings to you all.

  • Perseverance

    The Merriam-Webster’s On-line Dictionary defines perseverance as: “the action or condition or an instance of persevering: steadfastness”.  The root word persevere is to continue despite difficulties, opposition, or discouragement. Today is one of those days when I’m struggling.  I’m not discouraged, far from it. I excited about the possibilities that are opening up for me.  I’m more distracted with other things.

    Today my husband and I are leaving for a week-end trip and it’d be much easier to just pack and get ready for my trip than to sit at the computer and write. But God called me to write, so write I must do.

    “Therefore, my beloved brethren [and sisters], be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.” I Corinthians 15:58 (NKJV)

    “Be steadfast.” That means even when there are distractions and things the self wants to do, I have to be faithful to do the things I’ve committed to do.

    Jesus said “He who is faithful in what is least is faithful also in much; …” Luke 16:10a

    If I expect to write and publish books, I must prove myself faithful in the small assignments first. How many times do we disparage the small tasks we’re assigned, not considering they are important to someone else, and our response to them is important to God. God looks on the heart, and when our heart is right before Him regarding the work we’re called to do, whatever that may be, He will bless it.  We are not to despise small beginnings because we don’t always know what is just around the corner or what the end result will be. Only God knows and He is God of  the small and the great. (Read Zechariah 4:10)

    So my friends, whatever you are called to do, do it with all your might.

    Peace and blessings.

    Dee

  • Joy Comes in the Morning

    “My days are swifter than a weaver’s shuttle, And are spent without hope.

    Oh, remember that my life is a breath! My eye will never again see good.” (Job 7:6,7)

    Have you ever felt this way?  I have.  And if we’re honest, so have most of us. Even the most committed Christian can go through a valley from time to time.

    Usually, these are brief  periods brought on by circumstances beyond of our control or even by unconfessed sin.  Sometimes  depression is caused by chemical imbalance in the brain and can be treated with medication. I’ve suffered from chemical imbalance as well as the normal trips through the valley, and there are differences.  And sometimes even Christians suffer from clinical depression and need to be hospitalized for treatment.

    If you are having any thoughts of suicide, even vague thoughts that things would be better without you, or feel that you just can’t keep going, Please, stop what you are doing and get help immediately. Call your doctor; he/she can determine if you need hospitalization or if medication alone would help.  There are excellent medications available and if the first one doesn’t work, your doctor can help you find one that will. If you don’t want to use prescription drugs, there are herbal remedies that work very well for some people if taken faithfully.  Call your pastor or a Godly counselor. They can help give you the tools you need to work through emotional problems.  And most of all pray.  “Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray.” James 5:13

    For me, there were days I just didn’t have the energy to get out of bed. I thought there was something wrong with me physically, or that’s what I told myself. Even after sleeping 8 or 9 hours, I was still tired all the time.  I had difficulty coping with even the smallest crisis or making decisions. It was affecting my work and my home life.  Finally I went to see the  doctor and he was able to diagnose my problem. He put me on 2 different anti-depressants before finding the right one for me.  It took a few months, but it made all the difference in my life.  A few years ago, I came to the place where I was able to wean off the prescriptions (under doctor supervision) and now I take herbal remedies. With my brain chemistry in balance, now I’m able to hear God. Now I’m able to discern His voice in my decision making processes. Now I can say with confidence “The joy of the Lord is my strength” and  “I can do all things through Christ”.

    There should be no shame in saying you need help, the shame is suffering needlessly.  “…Weeping may last for the night, But a shout of joy {comes} in the morning.” Psalm 30:5b (NASB)

    Please leave me a comment if you’d like to share your experiences. To read more, please see page “Joy Comes in the Morning”, click on tab at top.

    Peace and Blessings.